There is a beautiful family I have become acquainted with – a mom and a dad and three boys aged 4, 6, 8 years old. These boys are the happiest boys I’ve ever seen. They seem very settled and quite content almost all the time. It is remarkable to witness, as so many boys these boys’ ages are wild and challenging to control.
I have watched their parents parent them – both parents show deep love and physical affection for each boy. They speak in quiet tones when they talk to the boys. What has been interesting to note is that all three boys know the family’s rules for how to behave and they all respect the rules and are really well-behaved. I have also seen what the parents do when there is a need for correction. The consequences for misbehavior are quick, predictable and significant. It seems that the boys have been taught the rules well, and have also been taught the consequences so that they know what will happen if they misbehave. It struck me that the strong boundaries set by these parents, and the strong expectation that the boundaries will be respected, has given these boys a strong sense of security. This in addition to the deep deep love of these parents has led to secure, happy and contented children. It’s quite remarkable.
I have been reflecting on Law of Moses in the Old Testament. Many Christians will make the argument that the OT Law has been fulfilled and has been replaced with the New Covenant, often interpreted as freedom from the Law. I wonder whether we have misunderstood.
What if God the Father Who loves us infinitely designed His Law for the purpose of raising up happy, secure and contented children (just as my friends’ “law” is raising up happy, secure and contented boys)? There is such an inclination to separate the Who of the God of the OT from the Who of God/Jesus of the NT. If He is “the same yesterday, today and forever” (Hebrews 13:8; Malachi 3:6), then the God of the OT and the God of the NT are by His own words the same in character and nature. (“And He is the radiance of His glory and the exact representation of His nature, and upholds all things by the word of His power. When He had made purification of sins, He sat down at the right hand of the Majesty on high,” Hebrews 1:3) There is an inclination to see the God of the OT as wrathful and harsh, and the God of the NT as the God of love. How can that be if they are the same God?
Our God is a good good Father – One Who knows our every thought and action. If He knows everything about us, and His plans for us are for our welfare and not for evil (Jeremiah 29:11), then He knows how we work and the necessary boundaries for us to be happy, secure and contented. It seems to me that the Law of the OT, expanded by Jesus in the Sermon on the Mount (Matthew 5-7:23) is for our best good, and it would be wise to follow and obey it. Jesus Himself said: “If you love me you will keep (obey) My commands.” (John 14:15) If Jesus and the Father are One, and what is written in the OT Law is indeed of the One, then it confuses me as to why we no longer need to obey what He (God the Father and Jesus) have told us to obey. “For this is the love of God, that we keep His commandments. And His commandments are not burdensome.” (1 John 5:3) “Whoever does not love Me does not keep My words. And the word that you hear is not Mine, but the Father’s Who sent Me.” (John 14:24)